Stop living by rules you never chose.
You learned what it meant to be a good woman long before you were old enough to question it.
Be nice. Keep the peace. Put everyone else first. Don’t disappoint people. Don’t ask for too much. Don’t be too much.
Follow those rules long enough, and they stop feeling like rules. They start feeling like who you are.
So when you you do things like say yes when you want to say no, feel guilty putting yourself first, or worry about what someone thinks of you, it doesn’t feel like a rule.
It just feels like you.
But what if it isn’t?
Find out which rules are running your life.
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The next step is to Fire the Good Girl™ Not the woman you are, but the rules you created around who you thought you had to be.
Fire the Good Girl is not about becoming less kind, less giving, or less caring.
It is about noticing when being good stops feeling like a choice and starts feeling like a requirement.
When saying no feels selfish.
When disappointing someone feels wrong.
When wanting more makes you question whether you should.
When keeping everyone happy feels like your job.
That is when it is worth asking: Who decided what being a good woman was supposed to look like?
And are those expectations still the rules you want running your life?
That is the conversation at the heart of our Fire the Good Girl Podcast.
Once you start seeing the rules, you start noticing how often they have been speaking for you.
The podcast gets underneath the thoughts, choices, and emotional patterns women often assume are simply part of who they are.
Through raw stories, honest conversations, humor, heartbreak, and the kind of moments that make you recognize yourself in a whole new way, we uncover what may actually be driving these patterns.
You will start noticing things you have never questioned before and asking a much bigger question:
Is this really me, or is this who I learned I had to be?
Fire the Good Girl Podcast
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Meet Vera LaRee
Author, entrepreneur, Inc. 5000 founder, and Creator of Fire the Good Girl™
Vera helps women uncover the invisible rules behind the guilt, second guessing, people pleasing, overthinking, fear of disappointing others, pressure to keep everyone happy, and tendency to put themselves last, so they can finally see what has been quietly shaping their lives.