Stop living by rules you never chose.
You learned what it meant to be a good woman long before you were old enough to question it.
Be nice. Keep the peace. Put everyone else first. Don’t disappoint people. Don’t ask for too much. Don’t be too much.
Follow those rules long enough, and they stop feeling like rules. They start feeling like who you are.
So when you do things like say yes when you want to say no, feel guilty putting yourself first, or worry about what someone thinks of you, it doesn’t feel like a rule.
It just feels like you.
But what if it isn’t?
Find out which rules are running your life.
Get the free guide: The 7 Rules You Never Consciously Agreed To
The next step is to Fire the Good Girl™
Not the woman you are, but the rules you created around who you thought you had to be.
Fire the Good Girl is not about becoming less kind, less giving, or less caring.
It is about noticing when being good stops feeling like a choice and starts feeling like a requirement.
When saying no feels selfish.
When disappointing someone feels wrong.
When wanting more makes you question whether you should.
When keeping everyone happy feels like your job.
That is when it is worth asking: What happened in my life that taught me what a good woman was supposed to be?
And are the rules I created then still the rules I want guiding my life now?
That is the conversation at the heart of the Fire the Good Girl Podcast.
Through raw stories, honest conversations, humor, heartbreak, and the kind of moments that make you think, “Wait... I do that too,” Vera helps you recognize the rules you may have created from your own experiences.
The podcast gets underneath the thoughts, choices, and emotional patterns women often assume are simply part of who they are.
You will begin noticing things you have never questioned before and asking a much bigger question:
Is this really me, or is this who I learned I had to be?
Fire the Good Girl Podcast
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